Most Common Problems & Solutions Between Couples Of Today - A Brief Overview
ATTENTION !!!!
Well, I am not referring to seeking attention for this post or blog, I am referring to the attentions girls seek from their partner, as that is the major problem between couples of today's world. Space !!! no, I am not going to narrate any sci-fi story here, I am just telling that 'space' is another major problem, which can lead to disastrous results in love life. Give your partner optimum amount of space so that they can be themselves sometimes, the way they want to be, and you will be shocked to how much attention you will get after that, not to forget space as well. Doing above two things, increases trust in a relationship, and that as many says is the foundation of not only love life, but of any relationship. Give attention as well as space to your partner, when it is required, and you will be on your way to a happy and ever lasting love life.
Things change, people change, world changes, many say.. and it does as well. But, for better or for worse, depends upon you. Whether you choose to change with it, or not, depends upon you. I say, change where its needed and not where it is not. You got the point? No? Well, I am saying, do not show attitude if you are superior in just any respect to your partner, be always like you were before, don't change there. Do not ever, and I mean it, ever hit below the belt and you know what I am talking about. People have different secret weak zones, where people do not like being hit upon, you are his girlfriend or her boyfriend, you are the last person he or she is expecting it from, in fact, you are there to guard her or him, if at all anybody does. So? if you did, did you do right?
Anger? Jealousy? Suspicion? These are few other problems routed through the deficiency of above problems, but the out come of mixture of all above is just so natural, isn't it? Break up. You want that? Always remember the good things about your relationship, be sure there are, because otherwise it won't be a relationship anyways. Remember the good times, and strengthen your bond with your partner, never hesitate to say sorry, never hesitate to trust. You can't keep sand in your palms forever anyways, can you? So trust.
Keep your relationship from getting boring, it does once in a while, it always does. Do something exciting, and don't hesitate to be the one to initiate. You know what your partner likes, do that for him or her. If you are a girl, take him out for dinner or lunch, dress up, give a surprise, do something that will make him feel, that he or she is special. It becomes necessary to remind this, once in a while. We all think, we never do. Isn't it? Don't miss the chance, while you have.
Love has different definitions, but it is basically a feeling which comes when all the above mentioned factors which include trust, space, freedom, care and so on emotions are in perfect combination with each other. Lil surprises and li'l emotions, makes a huge difference. Li'l miss you texts when you wake up in the morning, always starts your day with a smile isn't it?. You brag about being in a relationship and burden it becomes after a while, but ever thought why your brag? Because you have it.
There are problems, and you know the solutions. Problems in a relationships are like stretch marks, so be happy that your relationship is growing. Don't brag, it hurts, but its a must. Solve the problems, be loyal to your partner, and love him or her like no one else will and you will get the same in return.
Love is an experience, you don't want to let go no matter how poisonous or painful. So, have it while you can, and be deserving of it. Not everyone are lucky in love, and fate changes mate, so hold on to it.
